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Holiday season break ups

If you are apart of the many people who have broken up with their partners, you may feel alone, but you are not. In fact “holiday break ups” are extremely common.

The weeks before Christmas is a bad time for relationships. As we approach the year end, people tend to reflect on their lives, and sadly sometimes their partners no longer fit into their plans.

It’s amazing how much loneliness and loss can hurt, epsecially around this time of year when everyone around you seems to be happy.. The hurt can be so intense, it’s almost physical. After all the concept of these holidays are about happy families. Everywhere you go reminds you of this.

My advice on surviving these ‘holiday break ups” is,

If you are invited for parties, go! Now I know it may be difficult attending these events alone but it is better then staying home alone sobbing. Go to the movies watch the best comedy ever, “laughter after all is the best medicine”. Spend time taking care of you, do a spa day, indulge in your favorite ice cream, wear that dress that you love but could not  wear because it upset him. Start a list of all the things you would not have been able to do this holiday if you were in that relationship. (PS, this will amaze you).

And if someone asks about the break up just say you needed to spring clean your life after all almost all new beginnings start with a bad ending.f8c4087b5a5d1a7023848c08015d7f77--breakup-funny-stuff



Monday Motivation

How many of us hate Mondays???? I know I used to be one of the people who despised Monday, I simply hated the thought of Monday until, I realised something, “Monday really is just a state of mind”. Monday is the day were a new week is before you, with new starts and endless possibilities. Mondays are a way to build something new, fix the yesterdays, mend the hearts, correct your errors and start fresh.

Every Monday is our chance to change our lives, begin your morning with energy, feel that fire in your belly burn, imagine your week ahead to be one filled with success, picture what you want to achieve and picture exactly how you plan to achieve it,  most importantly feel the joy of achieving the goals you set for this week. Feel the pride you have in yourself for accomplishing these goals, you see once you can truly feel this moment of success, it creates a craving deep within your mind, which fuels your actions for the week ahead.

Now I know Monday’s can be stressful because it means we might have to face negative people a work, but remember when you woke up this Monday morning you chose happiness!

“Be fearless in the pursuit of what brings joy to your heart”

Advice Aunt’s Monday Tip :

Have an Avocado for breakfast because Avocados are not only a fruit which has a sweet taste; it has a sweet effect on your mood as well. it contains Serotonin just like Asparagus, which boosts your mood because it is a happy hormone.


I will praise you in the storm

May the protection of our Lord be upon you brave Lisa. Will be following you and praying for your recovery. Many blessings sent your way.

Through the storm

First, let me start by saying, I never thought I’d be writing a blog. (Or trying to anyway) But here I am, sharing something that is deeply personal. As I have been thinking about possibly doing this, I hope that I can be an encouragement & Glorify Jesus in every post. And if I’m able to encourage one person, then I will have done well. (in my opinion😉)

So here goes, my name is Lisa, I’m a Jesus loving wife, homeschooling mama of 4 who LOVES to read & was told by doctors, at the age of 35, I have stage 2 triple positive breast cancer, with lymph node involvement. That’s what the doctors have said anyway. I’m still standing on God’s word- Isaiah 53:5

“But he was pierced for our transgressions, he was crushed for our iniquities; the punishment that brought us peace was on him, and by his…

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Thoughts on Foothill Drive


Mae's Mind

Took myself to lunch today. Just the way I like it. Actually, I’m sitting here at the table waiting for my food right now. I put my phone away so I could just enjoy my mind and the things around me. I’m surrounded by gossiping people. Literally each table I tune in to consists of one person telling a loud story with a snarky voice and flailing arms, with the others at the table either trying their hardest to look like they’re listening when I know their minds are wandering the way mine does, or listening to the story with a wide mouth and a common “noooo, really?” My favorite snippet I heard was “Yes, he said that. And in MY Sunday school class!” Utah. That’s all I have to say. But, somehow I love it. I find it so funny the typical Utah people. Just, Utah. But, as I…

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First Day Of Christmas…. It’s here!!!

It is the first of December 2017, OMG were has this year gone.

Its officially the first day of the Christmas season has arrived. This time of year brings so much of love, joy and kindness to the world, it is when we are reminded of what our loved one’s mean to us, we look back at the homes we have build and it fills our hearts with so much pride, we are over come with joy when we are reflect on the dreams we made come true and the obstacles we have over come.

However today also makes me think of those whom this season is not very kind too, those folk who have to leave their families at home to serve us. I speak of the shop assistants, the waiters, the doctors, the nurses, the police, all these kind , selfless people who make our festive season amazing, let’s remember to be kind to them. Take some time out of this festive season to bring joy to those who are homeless, those who are orphan, those who has lost loved ones and those who are fighting personal battles.

Christmas is indeed a season to be jolly, so let’s spread the joy, touch as many people’s lives as you can this Christmas, remember to someone who is alone in this season, your kind gesture can change their whole world.

“Christmas is not so much about opening presents, it is about opening our hearts”.

Advice Aunt’s festive tip :

1\4 teaspoon bicarbonate soda in a glass of water to combat acid refulx from all the yummy festive foods.

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